My Sister's Wedding

I went home to my place in Iloilo City last September 12 to 14 to attend my younger sister's wedding. I had to be there as I was the matron of honor and I didn't want to miss a very important occasion for our family. I brought along my two kids who were just as excited as I am to see their Tita and Lola Beck once again. A big part of my baggage were the giveaways which I was assigned to buy in Davao City. Unfortunately, my husband could not make it as he is working overseas.

The wedding was a much-awaited one as my sister, Tina, is already in her late 30's. It was really meant to be. Tina and her husband, Boboy, are both mature people who have found love, I must say, at just about the right time. Both have enjoyed their singlehood to the fullest and are now prepared to settle down as a couple.

My Nanay had been praying for a partner for Tina. I guess all mothers want their children to settle down and have kids of their own. And God has blessed my sister because of all the good deeds she has done all these years. She has been well rewarded both in her professional career as a banker and now, in her personal life. And we are all so happy that she has found a man to call her own.

The ceremony was on a Saturday afternoon and we flew from Davao early that morning. It felt great to be home again after more than a year. I think I haven't mentioned before that I'm a true blue Ilongga who grew up in the City of Iloilo so I always look forward to every chance that I can go home and visit my mother, relatives and friends.

Weddings are always an opportunity to get together with family and friends. And what made the event special was three close relatives -- one from Manila and two from the U.S. came just to be with us. Our second cousin Fr. Nestie Gungon (from Manila) officiated the wedding ceremony while Tita Tess and Kuya Romy (from California) were the primary sponsors.

Our three days flew so fast but it was worth the trip. What matters is my kids and I were able to share my sister's very special moment. Congratulations and best wishes again, Tina and Boboy and may God bless you with a happy life and kids of your own.

Encourage Musically-inclined Children

Music will always be part of life. Without it, life just isn't complete. As babies, we've been exposed to music when our mothers would sing to us lullabies or play music to put us to sleep. However, not every child develops an ear for music when they grow old.

As a mother, one would know whether her child is musically-inclined. A child normally shows signs that he or she is really into music. You would know by the way she hums or sings some lines of songs she's heard of or would nod her head when she hears music.

One sign that showed me my four-year-old daughter, Charlotte, appreciates music because of the serious attention she gives me whenever I sing some lines from my favorite songs in front of her. She would observe closely my mouth and then would imitate how I sing afterwards. In fact, she can memorize the lively tunes she hears from TV commercials as well as the theme songs of the teleseryes on primetime TV.

I'm amazed that my child appreciates not just slow music but even the upbeat tunes. The truth is, she's good at dancing, too. Sometimes I would catch her pretending to sing and dance while playing alone and I would just silently admire her because once she catches me looking at her, she'd stop.

As parents, we need to encourage our children to develop their musical talents. It's God-given and they should learn to develop it when they can. Parental support plays a vital role here. I love singing and dancing, too, and when I have the time to do that, I encourage my daughter to do it with me. In this way, you're not only bonding with your child but teaching her to continue her love for music.

Juggling Parental Responsibilities

Being a wife of an overseas Filipino worker (OFW) is no big joke. As the hubby is working in another country, this means I'm left on my own to raise the children, keep the house and earn a living at the same time. Tough job it sure is but when you have adjusted to life like this, you'll learn to manage everything with ease. Attitude counts a lot.

It's a good thing that I have a home-based job (actually two jobs) which allows me to attend to the children's needs and keep the house neat and clean without the time constraints. I also credit my parents for raising me to be a responsible and independent person because if not, I would have depended on them all the time especially as I live far away from them. I thank my young and trusted helper or I'd rather call her my personal assistant for assisting me in watching over the kids and helping in the household chores.

Literally, I'm a single parent in this situation. But I can't complain because I know that God has reasons for everything. I'm grateful for what I have right now, for making me a mother and wife, for giving me a good job and a good assistant in the house. Sometimes, my patience may be short when it comes to instilling discipline among my two kids but always, I try to remind myself to keep my cool. And above all, I never lose my faith in God because it is with His grace that I am able to fulfill my parental responsibilities every day to the best that I can even in the absence of my partner.

The Amazing PSP

I am really amazed at this PSP or the Play Station Portable that has swept the world. Kids and adults alike have been magnetized by this handy electronic gadget from Sony. My 11-year-old son JP was gifted by his Dad with one in 2008 and since then has been so engrossed with it.

I didn't realize the gadget can be so addictive especially to the children who love to play their computer games with it until I saw my son using it with gusto. He would start playing upon waking up in the morning and if only he had his way, he could go on using the PSP until the end of the day. Children, especially the males, can go on playing for hours without getting bored. My son and his friends in the neighborhood would hop from our house to his friend's house just to play their PSP games. What's funny is that when they do their house hopping, they would bring along their chargers to let them continue playing after their batteries have run out of power. Sometimes, their moms would personally fetch them from our house after long hours of absence in their own homes. I would do the same when JP doesn't come back on time.

The PSP can actually do other things apart from playing games stored in the Memory Stick or content in a disc (UMD). Being wifi ready, it is capable of connecting to the internet. It can also copy images, music and videos from the computer and can be connected to the TV to view videos stored in the Memory Stick Duo.

I like the PSP better than the GameBoy because it has a wider screen and therefore friendly to the eyes. An advantage is its storage capacity which means, it can save several games in the Memory Stick plus you can purchase discs containing games and still use it in the PSP. Whereas with the GameBoy, you only have one choice and that is to buy separate cartridges to play games. Since one cartridge only has one game, it can be quite costly to buy several pieces.

With its current popularity among the young and old alike, it looks like this amazing PSP is here to stay. Let's wait and see then whether Sony will come up with an upgrade in the near future.

Earning a Living Online

People are so lucky today they have the internet that can help them do a lot of things in the convenience of their homes. Thanks to this highly advanced information technology, wives, mothers and even the men can choose to stay at home and earn a living at the same time. They have so many choices from starting an online business and engaging in internet marketing to blogging, article writing and working for a company on a home-based setup.

The great thing about working online is that a person can have not just one but several jobs or businesses. You can start out by assessing what field you'd like to get into. If you're good at writing, then you can go for blogging and writing articles on a freelance or fixed employment basis. If you're business minded, you can apply for affiliate programs and start your own online store or get into network marketing. If you want a full-time job with a stable company, you can also apply for a home-based position.

With numerous tools available today without any cost, earning a living online is not that difficult. As long as you have focus and you're committed to doing your best in every endeavor that you get into, success is not far behind.

I'm glad to be one of these lucky people now earning my keep on the internet. It's the best setup for me and one which I'd like to maintain in the long run. There are endless possibilities to earning money online these days, one just needs to be resourceful enough.

Life Begins Today

I'm celebrating a new year in my life today and this is where life begins for me. If you still don't get the hint, yes, I'm now 40 and I thank the Lord for giving me such a wonderful life. I'm grateful for all the blessings, big and small, that I have received through the years. I consider myself lucky for having been born into a complete family with very supportive parents and siblings. Now that I'm a wife and mother, I'm thankful for having a great husband and children with whom I can share my life and for having a home-based job that I love. I can never be happier.

I've long been curious about the saying "Life begins at 40." All I knew then was that people who reach this age throw a big party to celebrate their birthday. But now that I'm a member of the club, I have a better understanding of what it means. Based on my research on the internet, the "Life begins at 40" saying refers to middle age considered to be a new stage of life. This is in reference to American writer W.B. Pitking who wrote a book with the same title.

Birthdays are a celebration of life and I guess when you turn 40, it's when you are able to look at life in a more positive light. It's when you are able to do things that will make you happy. It's when you've hurdled the most challenging years of marriage and starting a family. It's when you're more relaxed in life and enjoy watching your growing children.

There's this one study done in 2008 at the Queen's University of Belfast showing that growing old is actually a happier experience. Just as young people are enjoying their youth, so do the old folks. The difference is in the attitude towards health wherein the younger ones can be carefree about drinking and smoking and all those vices while the old folks have already changed their lifestyle for good.

So there's really nothing wrong with growing old and it's not a gloomy life as what some youngsters believe. Age does not matter as long as you enjoy every moment and do your best to live the life you want for you and your family. Cheers to many more years ahead!!

Tribute to Tita Cory

Most Filipinos wherever they are in the world are saddened by the passing away of former president Corazon Aquino yesterday. But somehow despite the grief we feel, most of us are also glad that her suffering has ended and she is finally reunited with her husband Ninoy Aquino. It's one of her wishes during her last days as shared by her spokesperson Deedee Siytangco.

Tita Cory, as she is known to us Filipinos, was a role model and inspiration not only as a president but also as a mother. She was the first woman to become president of a country and one who always wanted to unite the Filipino people. She was not only a mother to her children but to all Filipinos who believed in her. As a mother, she was strong in her faith to God and was very loving to her family. She raised her children well with the right values since the time Ninoy was in jail until he was killed. Also, we have been witness to how she was a doting grandma to her grandchildren.

I know how it feels to lose an important figure in life having lost a dear father myself almost four years ago. But I'm sure Tita Cory prepared her children and other family members by stressing the importance of praying together and I know they will be able to move on with their lives with the memory of their beloved mother always alive in their hearts.

Thank you, Tita Cory for sharing your life to the Filipinos. We will miss you.