Showing posts with label child. Show all posts
Showing posts with label child. Show all posts

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Encourage Musically-inclined Children



Music will always be part of life. Without it, life just isn't complete. As babies, we've been exposed to music when our mothers would sing to us lullabies or play music to put us to sleep. However, not every child develops an ear for music when they grow old.

As a mother, one would know whether her child is musically-inclined. A child normally shows signs that he or she is really into music. You would know by the way she hums or sings some lines of songs she's heard of or would nod her head when she hears music.

One sign that showed me my four-year-old daughter, Charlotte, appreciates music because of the serious attention she gives me whenever I sing some lines from my favorite songs in front of her. She would observe closely my mouth and then would imitate how I sing afterwards. In fact, she can memorize the lively tunes she hears from TV commercials as well as the theme songs of the teleseryes on primetime TV.

I'm amazed that my child appreciates not just slow music but even the upbeat tunes. The truth is, she's good at dancing, too. Sometimes I would catch her pretending to sing and dance while playing alone and I would just silently admire her because once she catches me looking at her, she'd stop.

As parents, we need to encourage our children to develop their musical talents. It's God-given and they should learn to develop it when they can. Parental support plays a vital role here. I love singing and dancing, too, and when I have the time to do that, I encourage my daughter to do it with me. In this way, you're not only bonding with your child but teaching her to continue her love for music.

Wednesday, July 8, 2009

Mother and Child Ties


If there's one thing that I admire in Michael Jackson other than his music and remarkable achievements in his career, it's his close ties with his mother, Katherine. It's heart-warming to know that amid all the fame as well as the rough roads that he had to go through, his mom was his staunch supporter. No wonder why Michael entrusted his three children to his mother.

I have always admired people who are close to their mothers. I know how it feels to have a wonderful and supportive mom and I consider myself a very lucky daughter. I enjoy a great relationship with my mother whom I fondly call "Nanay." She's been there to support me and my siblings in everything we do even until now. Nanay was just a call away and I appreciated it so much that she was able to be with me when I gave birth to my two children with a seven-year gap. She and my Tatay were successful in raising all four of us to become the responsible and independent individuals that we are now.

Nanay is a young looking person especially when in her tip top shape. In fact, as me and my sister were growing up, the three of us were even mistaken as sisters. I took after my Nanay in many aspects including my looks, my being a hands-on mother and my dedication to keep my family together. And although we're miles apart today, I always make sure to call her at home as often as I can and update her with our latest activities.

We may have differences but our strong bond is more important than anything else today. A mother is the best person anybody can have and now that I'm a mom myself, I'd like to follow the footsteps of Nanay.